To help you prepare for this new experience, we've anticipated some common questions. Of course, if you've been to church before, this is familiar.
Remember your first day of school? You probably arrived feeling a little insecure about what would be expected of you. All churches have their way of doing things, and this can seem weird at first when you're not sure what, when, or how things are done. The best plan is to watch others around you. Regular attendees will know the routine, so follow their lead. If something seems strange or you don't understand it, you can just go with the flow. It will make sense eventually, and you can't be expected to know everything at first. Also keep in mind that you are not obligated to participate in any aspect of the service that makes you feel uncomfortable.
When you arrive at church, most likely someone will greet you near the doorway, saying hello and offering their help. Feel free to ask that person for directions. They can help you get to the main gathering, the child-care areas, the restrooms, and to how to find coffee!
You will recieve some kind of bulletin, which will also help you to know what to expect. Sit wherever you feel comfortable—front,back,aisle seat, mid-row, near the door, in the crowd, away from people, whatever works for you.
